Do You Know What It Feels Like To Be Disabled?
By Connie Ramos-Williams

Have you or your child ever seen someone who is mentally
or physically disabled and stare, laugh, or voice comments making
fun of that
person? If you have you are probably like the 70% of the population
that does. Why do we treat people with special needs that way?
Many times people react strangely to people with special needs
because they simply do not understand the disability and do not
know how to appropriately respond when they are around that person.
Other times people act badly because of ignorance or just out of
cruelty.
It is human nature to be scared of things we do
not understand. A local family in Estero knows first hand what
it is all about.
Twelve years ago the Millers gave birth to a little girl, named
Rachal. Their pregnancy went well and for the first month and
a half of Rachal’s life she developed well and was quite
healthy. When Rachal was six weeks old she began having seizures,
1000’s of seizures that have altered her life and her families
lives forever.
Young Rachal, at only 6 months old was diagnosed
with a rare brain disease that would leave her mentally disabled
for the rest of
her life. Doctors encouraged Mr. and Mrs. Miller to leave their
young baby behind in an institution stating that her life would
be better off in an institution than with her parents. After
digesting the news of Rachel permanent disability, the Millers
decided to devote their lives to the caring of their daughter
and opted against the institution. This was the beginning not
the end for the Millers who already had one young son, Benjamin.
As Rachal grew older and went to middle school,
Mrs. Miller witnessed several students making fun of her daughter.
She felt the pain
and realization of how her daughter would be treated by others.
Instead of sitting idly by, Mrs. Lisa Cronin Miller decided to
do something to make a difference. “We need to educate
other children and their parents about special needs people, “ said
Cronin-Miller. “How can anyone treat people with special
needs properly without completely understanding how to react
to them, what to say to them or what they themselves feel or
go through on a day to day basis. Do you know what it feels like
to be disabled or have special needs? Last year, Mrs. Cronin-Miller gave everything up
to create “Sensitivity Awareness Workshop, Inc.”. “
I felt that if we could share the circumstances surrounding Rachal’s
life we would be able to educate “typical” people
that Rachal and anyone that has a disability did not volunteer
for this...
it just happened to them.”
Disabilities can happen at birth, or anytime during
a lifetime. The Program provides an opportunity for a “typical” person
to actually walk in the shoes of some diagnosed with a physical,
mental or learning disability. They offer fine motor, gross motor,
hearing, visual, and speech impairments, auditory memory and
discrimination and learning disability Task Centers. These Task
Centers allow the typical participant to actually place on that
disability for a moment in time. To experience all the frustration
and difficulty that surrounds every day tasks for a disabled
person.
Their goal is to change one heart at a time, to
share compassion and empathy not ignorance, pity or sorrow.
They offer a complete comprehensive Program that
can be brought to any organization, schools or work place. They
have 1000’s
of thank you letters and surveys testifying to the life changes
attitudes of those participants. Please feel free to visit their
web site at www.sawoneheart.com or call us to find out more about
this program.
Call them at 239- 949 –6018 or email them
at contact@sawoneheart.com. — Connie Ramo-Williams is publisher of SWFL Parent&Child
SAW
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