
Workshop shows kids
the need for sensitivity
Mother preaches tolerance to students
By Don Manley
dmanley@news-press.com
Originally posted on September 20, 2006
Last Wednesday was a time for lessons in empathy
and compassion for some Gateway Elementary School students.
They gained insight into the lives of the disabled
through a video, hands-on activities and the impassioned words
of Lisa Cronin Miller and her Sensitivity Awareness Workshop.

Students attempt to place puzzle pieces
in their correct place while blindfolded Wednesday during
the Sensitivity Awareness Workshop at Gateway Elementary School.
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Fourth- and fifth-grade students roughly
250 total over the course of the day assembled in groups
of 50 in the school's media center for the hour-long sessions
of the workshop, which Cronin Miller, of Cape Coral, has been
conducting since 2003.
She kicked off the workshop with a brief video about
the inspiration for the program, her 14-year-old daughter, Rachal.
Rachal was a healthy child until the age of 6 months,
when she began having seizures which, over time, damaged her brain
and left her mentally retarded.
After years of hospitalizations, treatments, and
occupational and speech therapy, Rachal is now seizure-free, but
doctors were unable to pinpoint their cause, she said.
Cronin Miller, 41, said the workshop grew out of
an experience they had three years ago, when Rachal was attending
Bonita Middle School's program for mentally and physically challenged
children.
She said she accompanied her daughter to a school
dance, where she saw some students making fun of their special-needs
classmates. This horrified the stay-at-home mom. It was at this
point that she decided her life's work would be to enlighten people
about the plight of those with physical, mental or learning disabilities.
Since then, Cronin Miller said, she has presented
the workshop to roughly 5,000 people at Lee County elementary
and middle schools, businesses, clubs and community groups.
After the video, the children moved on to 10 tables
where they were challenged to perform tasks that simulate six
different disabilities.
"Our goal today is that you would step out
of your comfort zone and experience what their life is like,"
she said.
At one table, they had to write using their non-dominant
hand to replicate a fine motor skill problem. At another, it was
attempting to speak while keeping the tongue placed on the roof
of the mouth to experience what it is like to to be speech impaired.
A question and answer session followed, with Cronin
Miller asking the students which task was most difficult and what
adjectives best described their feelings while attempting them.
She then asked the students how often they called
others "retard" or "stupid," even in a joking
manner, and urged them to stop.
"I want you guys to treat others the way you
want to be treated," Cronin Miller said. "We want you
to treat each other with love and kindness."
She also encouraged the children to make classmates
with physical, mental or learning disabilities feel wanted, telling
them to, "Be a friend, sit next to them on the bus or talk
to them at lunch."
Fifth grader Andrea Soto, of Lehigh Acres, said
the workshop's message had an impact.
"It was cool," she said. "I learned
to think before you say something because if you say something,
it can really hurt that person inside."
Alexandria Rodriguez, 9, also of Lehigh Acres, said
she intends to stick up for disabled children if she feels they
are being mistreated.
"I learned that it's very hard for other people
and I feel sorry for them when people make fun of them,"
she said.
Gateway Principal Nancy Adams said the program has
value for all ages.
"We all need it," she said. "We all
need to learn what it's like to walk in somebody else's shoes.
When you understand what life is like for other people."
The program dovetails with the school's anti-bully
efforts, which utilize a number of special programs, said Mary
Jo Rheaume, Gateway's guidance counselor.
"We're trying to teach the children how
to be peacemakers rather than bullies," she said.
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